Paresh Patel - Good Thoughts for Life

The Truth About Failure.

2008-06-19T16:45:00.001+05:30

Failure doesn't mean you are a failure... ...it does mean you haven't succeeded yet.

Failure doesn't mean you have accomplished nothing... ...it does mean you have learned something.

Failure doesn't mean you have been a fool... ...it does mean you had a lot of faith.

Failure doesn't mean you have been disgraced... ...it does mean you were willing to try.

Failure doesn't mean you don't have it... ...it does mean you have to do something in a different way.

Failure doesn't mean you are inferior... ...it does mean you are not perfect.

Failure doesn't mean you've wasted your life... ...it does mean you've reason to start afresh.

Failure doesn't mean you should give up... ...it does mean you should try harder.

Failure doesn't mean you'll never make it... ...it does mean it will take a little longer.

Failure doesn't mean God has abandoned you... ...it does mean God has a better idea!

Must Read for Every Man and of course Woman (to understand man)

2008-06-15T15:43:00.000+05:30

Honorable MEN

Must Read for Every Man and of course Woman (to understand man)

If a female is reading this article then just realize the value of a man; and if its a male then feel proud of after reading it!

"One day, while a woodcutter was cutting a branch of a tree above a river, his axe fell into the river. When he cried out, the Lord appeared and asked, "Why are you crying?"

The woodcutter replied that his axe has fallen into water, and he needed the axe to make his living.

The Lord went down into the water and reappeared with a golden axe. "Is this your axe?" the Lord asked.

The woodcutter replied, "No."

The Lord again went down and came up with a silver Axe. "Is this your axe?" the Lord asked.

Again, the woodcutter replied, "No."

The Lord went down again and came up with an iron Axe. "Is this your axe?" the Lord asked.

The woodcutter replied, "Yes."
The Lord was pleased with the man's honesty and gave him all three axes to keep, and the woodcutter went home happy.

Some time later the woodcutter was walking with his wife along the riverbank, and his wife fell into the river. When he cried out, the Lord again appeared and asked him, "Why are you crying?"

"Oh Lord, my wife has fallen into the water!"

The Lord went down into the water and came up with ANGELINA JOLIE "Is this your wife?" the Lord asked.

"Yes," cried the woodcutter.

The Lord was furious. "You lied! That is an untruth!"

The woodcutter replied, "Oh, forgive me, my Lord. It is a misunderstanding. You see, if I had said 'no' to ANGELINA JOLIE , You would have come up with CAMERON DIAZ . Then if I said 'no' to her, you would have come up with my wife . Had I then said 'yes,' you would have given me all three. Lord, I am a poor man, and am not able to take care
of all three wives, so THAT'S why I said yes to ANGELINA JOLIE ."

The moral of this story is: Whenever a man lies, it is for a good and honorable reason, and for the benefit of others.

Lessons on Life

2008-06-13T02:46:00.000+05:30

There was a man who had four sons. He wanted his sons to learn not to judge things too quickly. So he sent them each on a quest, in turn, to go and look at a pear tree that was a great distance away.

The first son went in the winter, the second in the spring, the third in summer, and the youngest son in the fall.

When they had all gone and come back, he called them together to describe what they had seen. The first son said that the tree was ugly, bent, and twisted. The second son said no it was covered with green buds and full of promise.

The third son disagreed; he said it was laden with blossoms that smelled so sweet and looked so beautiful, it was the most graceful thing he had ever seen.

The last son disagreed with all of them; he said it was ripe and drooping with fruit, full of life and fulfillment.

The man then explained to his sons that they were all right, because they had each seen but only one season in the tree's life.

He told them that you cannot judge a tree, or a person, by only one season, and that the essence of who they are and the pleasure, joy, and love that come from that life can only be measured at the end, when all the seasons are up.

If you give up when it's winter, you will miss the promise of your spring, the beauty of your summer, fulfillment of your fall.

Moral lessons:

Don't let the pain of one season destroy the joy of all the rest.

Don't judge life by one difficult season.

A Real Friend

2008-06-08T02:42:00.000+05:30

REAL FRIEND TEST!
This is GOOD...I expect it back too!
I especially like the last sentence!!!!!!

A simple friend, when visiting, acts like a guest.
A real friend opens your refrigerator and helps himself
and doesn't feel even the least bit weird shutting your
'beer/Pepsi drawer' with her foot!

A simple friend has never seen you cry.
A real friend shoulder is soggy from your tears..

A simple friend doesn't know your parents' first
names.
A real friend has their phone numbers
in his address book.

A simple friend brings a bottle of wine to your
party.
A real friend comes early to help you cook and
stays late to help you clean.

A simple friend hates it when you call after
they've gone to bed.
A real friend asks you why you took so long to
call.

A simple friend seeks to talk with you about your
problems.
A real friend seeks to help you with your problems.

A simple friend wonders about your romantic
history.
A real friend could blackmail you with it!

A simple friend thinks the friendship is over when
you have an argument.
A real friend calls you after you had a fight.

A simple friend expects you to always be there for
them.
A real friend expects to always be there for you!

Intellectuals solve problems, Geniuses prevent them.....

2008-06-05T14:24:00.000+05:30

Put your hand on a hot stove for a minute, and it seems like an hour. Sit
with a pretty girl for an hour, and it seems like a minute.
THAT'S relativity.-Albert Einstein
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The brain is a wonderful organ. It starts working the moment you get up in
the morning and does not stop until you get into the office. - Robert
Frost
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The trouble with being punctual is that nobody's there to appreciate it.-
Franklin P. Jones
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We must believe in luck. For how else can we explain the success of those
we don't like?-Jean Cocturan
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It's amazing that the amount of news that happens in the world everyday
always just exactly fits the newspaper.- Jerry Seinfeld
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It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or
lose. Darrin Weinberg
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Life is pleasant. Death is peaceful. It's the transition that's
troublesome."
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Help a man when he is in trouble and he will remember you when he is in
trouble again.
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Complex problems have simple, easy to understand wrong answers.
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It is not exactly cheating, I prefer to consider it creative problem
solving.
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Whoever said money can't buy happiness, didn't know where to shop.
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Alcohol doesn't solve any problems, but then again, neither does milk.
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Most people are only alive because it is illegal to shoot them.
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Forgive your enemies but remember their names.
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The number of people watching you is directly proportional to the
stupidity of your action.
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Don't worry that the world ends today, its already tomorrow in Australia.
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U learn in life when u lose
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"Intellectuals solve problems; geniuses prevent them." -Albert Einstein

The Truth About Failure !!!

2008-06-01T23:33:00.000+05:30

Failure doesn't mean you are a failure... ...it does mean you haven't succeeded yet.

Failure doesn't mean you have accomplished nothing... ...it does mean you have learned something.

Failure doesn't mean you have been a fool... ...it does mean you had a lot of faith.

Failure doesn't mean you have been disgraced... ...it does mean you were willing to try.

Failure doesn't mean you don't have it... ...it does mean you have to do something in a different way.

Failure doesn't mean you are inferior... ...it does mean you are not perfect.

Failure doesn't mean you've wasted your life... ..it does mean you've a reason to start afresh.

Failure doesn't mean you should give up... ...it does mean you should try harder.

Failure doesn't mean you'll never make it... ...it does mean it will take a little longer.

Failure doesn't mean God has abandoned you... ...it does mean God has a better idea!

WINNER v/s LOSER

2008-05-27T03:55:00.000+05:30

Winners have dreams;
Losers have schemes.

Winners see the grains;
Losers see the pain.

Winners see the potential;
Losers see the past.

Winners make it happen;
Losers let it happen.

Winners see possibilities;
Losers see problems.

Winners makes commitments;
Losers makes promises.

Winners are a part of the team;
Losers are apart from the team.

Winner always has a programmed
Loser always has an excuse.

Winner says "Let me do it for you";
Loser says "That is not my job".

Winners say "I must do something";
Losers say "Something must be done".

Winner is always a part of the answer;
Loser is always a part of the problem.

Winner sees an answer for every problem;
Loser sees a problem for every answer.

Winners believe in win/win;
Loser believe for them to win, someone has to lose.

Winner says "It may be difficult but it is possible";
Loser says "It may be possible but it is too difficult".

Winner makes a mistake. He says "I was wrong";
Loser makes a mistake; he says "It wasn't my fault".

EASY V/s DIFFICULT

2008-05-25T22:30:00.000+05:30

Easy is to get a place is someone's address book.
Difficult is to get a place in someone's heart.

Easy is to judge the mistakes of others
Difficult is to recognize our own mistakes

Easy is to talk without thinking
Difficult is to refrain the tongue

Easy is to hurt someone who loves us.
Difficult is to heal the wound...

Easy is to forgive others
Difficult is to ask for forgiveness

Easy is to set rules.
Difficult is to follow them...

Easy is to dream every night.
Difficult is to fight for a dream...

Easy is to show victory.
Difficult is to assume defeat with dignity...

Easy is to admire a full moon.
Difficult to see the other side...

Easy is to stumble with a stone.
Difficult is to get up...
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Easy is to enjoy life every day.
Difficult to give its real value...

Easy is to promise something to someone.
Difficult is to fulfill that promise...

Easy is to say we love.
Difficult is to show it every day...

Easy is to criticize others.
Difficult is to improve oneself...

Easy is to make mistakes.
Difficult is to learn from them...

Easy is to weep for a lost love.
Difficult is to take care of it so not to lose it.

Easy is to think about improving.
Difficult is to stop thinking it and put it into action...

Easy is to think bad of others
Difficult is to give them the benefit of the doubt...

Easy is to receive
Difficult is to give

Easy to read this
Difficult to follow

Easy is keep the friendship with words
Difficult is to keep it with meanings.

Three Things In Life

2008-05-23T03:39:00.000+05:30

Three things in life that,
once gone, never come back:

Time, Words & Opportunity

Three things in life that
may never be lost:

Peace, Hope & Honesty.

Three things in life that
are most valuable:

Love, Self-confidence & Friends

Three things in life that
are never certain:

Dreams, Success & Fortune

Three things that make a man:

Hard work, Sincerity & Commitment

Three things in life that
can destroy a man:

Wine, Pride & Anger

I ask the Lord to bless you,

As I pray for you today;

To guide you and protect you,

As you go along your way.

His love is always with you,

His promises are true.

And when you give Him all your cares,

You know He'll see you through.

May Be GOD Wants....

2008-05-20T17:27:00.000+05:30

Maybe GOD wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift.

When the door of happiness closes, another opens, but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the one which has been opened for us.

The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.

It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.

Don't go for looks; they can deceive. Don't go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Find the one that makes your heart smile.

May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, enough hope to bring you joy.

Always put yourself in another's shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the other person, too.

The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.

The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past, you can't get on well in life until you let go of past failures and heartaches.

When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.